When you find life tough....

So every day isn't your best day every day may not be a day you are proud of it may not be a day you care to remember it may even be a day you can’t stop the tears.

And as the rain pours and the economy sinks , days become darker and so do outlooks and in between all of this sometimes it’s hard to keep up that cheery disposition; so I have a new theory. I celebrate the wins AND NOW I CELEBRATE the losses as well! Well not celebrate but I go out and thank God that the hurt is over, thank God that the loss has been felt and then allow myself the POWER TO GO ON and LOOK FORWARD.

Every day is not going to be amazing but our outlook can be. So what if you face rejection, humiliation and hurt- there are days where you also feel validated, loved and empowered. And like every day’s newspaper- yesterday’s news, is just yesterday’s news! so YESTERDAY’S BLUES SHOULD REMAIN YESTERDAY’S BLUES!


..also always remember YOU ARE BLESSED. somewhere someone is having a rougher day than you and they may not have the strength that you have. So pat yourself on the back and GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK!

Happiness or Satisfaction

If had you asked me when I was twenty-two years old to rate my life satisfaction, I’d probably have said 8 out of 10 because I had met certain standards for myself. I had graduated from college, was healthy, and had friends and family. But there were still some things I wanted out of life: I was looking for a job and starting a career. So, I would have thought, Well, I’m not a 10, but I’m not a 0. Maybe 8?
If you asked me the same question yesterday, I might give you exactly the same number for the same reason: I am largely content, but I still have more I want to do.
The difference is that being satisfied with life is more about meeting an expectation, being content, and being generally ok with life (there is a standard and we can be closer or further from meeting it), whereas, in theory, there are no upper limits to happiness. There may be happiness that we cannot even imagine.
Can we say, then, that life satisfaction is more like taking an exam (where 100% is the highest you could get), whereas happiness should be scored more like an essay (upon which there are no constraints in how excellent, thoughtful, or thought-provoking it could be)?
Or, maybe we can say that asking whether you’re satisfied with life is like asking whether you finished your scoop of ice cream, whereas asking about happiness is more like asking how your scoop of ice cream tasted. There are no bounds on how delicious ice cream could be.
It’s worth thinking about. What are our standards? What would make us satisfied with lives? What, on the other hand, are the possibilities for happiness and joy in our lives?

Journey So Far.

Just take a few moments to think about where I am and where I wanted to be.

It has been interesting so far.

I’ve had health issues and pain; but I’ve learnt to become stronger and tolerate more pain and fight more illness.

I’ve taken on more work and that’s made me exhausted but that’s also taught me to value my time with family and friends more.

I’ve learnt to say ‘yes’ more and done more than I should but have been happier then if I’d said ‘no’ and played it safe!

Am I exactly where i wanted to be in life?

Well, I’d like to believe I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. I learnt a long time ago that life doesn’t play by your rules and you’re going to have to keep improvising if you’d like the song to keep playing.

I’ve gotta keep moving,

Gotta keep dreaming. every day!

Thank you Lord. Thank you for bringing me a life full of experience. Thank you for all the people- the cheats, the friends, the enemies and the lovers- they have each taught me so much. Thank you for the Drama. Thank you for the Love!

Live Life

Rise and shine. It’s a new day. Smile. Walk. Run. Talk. Eat. Laugh. See. Do.

Don’t waste time on tears. Don’t waste time on fears. Life will happen regardless.

You may win. You will lose. You will love. You will hate. You may achieve but you must always try. Live the truth.

There will be days where you don’t want to get up. There will be days where you won’t want to sleep! There will be days that you’d love to forget and there will be those that you’ll remember every moment of.

Dream. If those dreams shatter and make some new dreams. There will be plans and they may not happen. Life has it’s own plans.It doesn’t need yours!

Save money. You will make money and you will lose money. You’ll be in debt and then you may have more than you need. Save.

Walk the road with your head held high. You may trip. You may even fall. But get up and keep walking because life is an adventure and though sometimes you are in the darkest tunnel remember there’s always a moment when you see the glorious hint of the sun!

Love. Fall in love. Rise in love. Give love. Demand love. It makes the journey of life worthwhile.

Don’t expect to love everyone and don’t expect everyone to love you.

Respect- give respect and be worthy of respect.

Inspire and be inspired! Don’t shut your mind to new experiences. Open your mind!

Eat the cupcake. Don’t spend your life on diet cause you will always see yourself as fat then! Don’t spend your life on food because you’ll miss out on other experiences then.

Have an opinion. Find one. Make one. Create one.

Laugh without a care.

Today is a great day because in the movie of your life-YOU ARE THE STAR!

Live Life...
Laugh Lots...
Love Forever....

Advantages in fun time with firends

Sometimes it can be very boring with just lounging around room doing the same old thing, like watching television alone with a bag of potato chips or surfing the internet and liking sharing stuff on facebook. Get together with those friends and plan something fun to do, like going to the theater or going out to dinner or prepare some authentic food.

Quality time spent with friends is very beneficial to self and also friends. It gives all time to bond closer together and have a great time, instead of a boring time spent alone. Life needs balance, sometimes being alone is beneficial, but it is not always good to be alone. Being with others should be a part of the balance we need in our lives, so the next time friends invite you to a party or ask you to take a road trip with them, tag along.



Friends can cheer you up when you are feeling down.

I have no time.....

I have no time or I am so busy.....same complain from all of us.
But think where day/week/month/year went!
It went.We were there but busy. But busy for what?
We spent less time with family and friends.
And I believe the reason is We are too busy thinking about the moments that just passed or the moments ahead.We are never focusing on the moments we are in.

We all born different... different country...different economic and different society...
But we all get the same amount of time in a day.....making use of this time can changes our lives.... We have same time to work, to relax, to fall in love, to dream, to live, to stress, to worry.

Instead of running to keep up with time..

Make every second count...Dont rush...We each have enough time...lets just take it....

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Java programming dynamics part1......

Take a look at what goes on behind the scenes of executing your Java application in this new series on the dynamic aspects of Java programming. Enterprise Java expert Dennis Sosnoski gives the scoop on the Java binary class format and what happens to classes inside the JVM. Along the way, it covers class loading issues ranging from the number of classes required for running a simple Java application to the class loader conflicts that can cause problems in J2EE and similar complex architectures.